OK provided I have understood your requirements correctly you are simply trying to upgrade your domain to 2012 R2?
If this is the case there is no need to use FIM.
To update all you have to do is
Build new Domain Controllers in each site on Windows Server 2012 R2
Configure these with your new desired hostnames and IP's
Install Active Directory from Server Manager
Promote to Domain Controllers
Once you have all your new Domain Controllers in place migrate the FSMO roles to one of your new DC's, it can be done using the commands in this post http://blog.ryanbetts.co.uk/2014/10/migrating-and-seizing-active-directory.html
Test that all of the new Domain Controllers are replicating properly with the old ones, so do some testings with NLTEST, DCDIAG, REPADMIN, Event Logs etc. When you are happy simply decommission out the old Domain Controllers using DCPROMO, if DCPROMO completes
properly it should remove most of the meta-data for the old DC's.
Do some more testing, and then raise the Domain/Forest levels as you like, baring in mind if you raise it to 2012 R2 only 2012 R2 DC's can be inside the domain. This does not include member server.
Ryan Betts
blog.ryanbetts.co.uk