Hi,
Let me give you some background that will give you some understanding what is exactly going on your case.
XMPP Proxy - This is a New Feature in Lync Server 2013 built-in EDGE Server role.
Extensible Messaging and Presence Protocol (XMPP) Lync Server 2013 introduces a fully integrated XMPP proxy (deployed on the Edge Servers) and an XMPP gateway deployed on your Front End Servers. You can deploy XMPP federation as an optional component.
Adding and configuring the XMPP proxy and XMPP gateway will allow your Microsoft Lync 2013 users to add contacts from XMPP-based partners for instant messaging (IM) and presence.
Note: Gmail uses XMPP Protocol to communicate with Lync 2013 Server
Your Scenario : You might have enabled the XMPP Proxy and installed it as a Default Install of the EDGE Server role.
You can achive this by using GUI or powershell,GUI option is already provided,hence i am providing the powershell option
Get-CsXmppAllowedPartner - Returns information about XMPP partners authorized to communicate with your organization.
http://technet.microsoft.com/en-us/library/jj204981.aspx
Remove-CsXmppAllowedPartner - Removes an existing XMPP allowed partner
http://technet.microsoft.com/en-us/library/jj205055.aspx
Hope that he