I have SBS 2003 with RRAS installed and a demand dialer connection to our remote server on the remote server we have demand dialer back to HQ server. we are able to see files back and forth, and printer to either location. however when the connection is active, the pending messages submission queue starts filling with messages and it is sometimes taking 4-5 hours to deliver messages, if i diable the demand dialer (break the connection mail flows flawlessly any help to fixing this will be greatly appreciated

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