I'm looking for a way to share my calender in outlook 2010 or office 365 with a friend so that :

1)  my calendar shows up in my friend's Iphone for all my public appointments but not anything I mark as Private .

2) my friend can add appointments in my calender i shared with her so that   i can either  "approve" or "reject" the added appointments in my calender 

I'm thinking this feature must be there for people with Assistants. I would appreciate if someone could tell me how to do this 

Thank you 

1) I believe that is the default behavior when you share the calendar folder.

2) Have them send you the appointments as invitations.

Hello,

You can set delegate settings in Outlook by referring the following article:

https://support.office.com/en-us/article/Allow-someone-else-to-manage-your-mail-and-calendar-aaeedebe-9de0-4141-8323-029f4b836759?CorrelationId=940ed041-5f14-481a-92f0-d63ceee63578&ui=en-US&rs=en-US&ad=US

Thanks,

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