Hi Skipster,
Not sure what you meant "by Running Exchange 2013 sp1 RU8." Is it Ex2010 or Ex2013CU8.
Use below to check that and compare the results with
Exchange Server Updates
Get-ExchangeServer | Format-List Name, Edition, AdminDisplayVersion
Setting the limit on just the connector doesn't necessarily mean that it will be sent to users as well.
There are other factors to be considered as well Scope of limits .
Order of precedence for message size limits
As said by Lynn, you should set more restrictive limits at the points where messages enter your infrastructure. For example, any message size restrictions on your Receive connectors that receive messages from the Internet should be less than or equal to
the message size restrictions you configure for your internal Exchange organization. It would be a waste of system resources for the Exchange server to accept and process a message from the Internet that would be rejected by the Transport service on your Mailbox
servers. Make sure that your organization, server, and connector limits are configured in a way that minimizes any unnecessary processing of messages.
Here is a
link confirming your understanding on single instance storage unavailability for Exchange 2013.Which is similar to Ex2010.
Dude, Where's My Single Instance?
References:
Something similar to 150 MB message size, did you get the idea from here :p
http://blogs.office.com/2015/04/15/office-365-now-supports-larger-email-messages-up-to-150-mb/