Regarding the local login, yes that's right, once a server has been made a domain controller it no longer HAS a local login account. Effectively it IS the domain, so it can't not login to it. Only member servers and client machines are able to choose whether to login to the local machine or the domain.
For Remote Desktop, RDP to domain controllers isn't recommended for security reasons, and as such is disabled by default. I think you'd need to enable and configure the "Allow log on through terminal services" policy to allow your admin login access.
I was able to figure out how to logon locally with another domain user but when do I change the settings on this system and deny me from logging on locally as a domain administrator... I was also able to get Remote Desktop running and I can logon that way now, but still can not figure out the policy that is preventing a domain admin from logging in locally, same message "you can not log on because the logon methiod you are using is not allowed on this compute"....
Thanks